How to Apologize without Saying You’re Sorry, by Tony Stoltzfus
Apologies are important: ever been in a situation where you got really hurt and the other individual wouldn't even so much as apologize to you? That's one of the ultimate snubs: you got hurt, but…
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How Life Purpose Connects with Suffering by Tony Stoltzfus
[/caption] Paul, one of my first coaching clients, engaged me to help him discover a sense of purpose in his life. Several months into the relationship, his teenage son was tragically killed in a car accident…
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Ministry Risk Factors — How Do You Stack Up? by Tony Stoltzfus
The 18 risk factors for pastors shown below are given with statistics that show where pastors are at today. You may be surprised or even shocked at some of the realities of ministry leadership. But…
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How God Gets Our Attention by Tony Stoltzfus
        Because coaches engage people at the growth edges and challenging places in life, they often encounter situations where God is trying to get a leader's attention and the leader isn't getting it. Understanding some…
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Where is Your Growing Edge? by Michael Pfau
Since we all are subject to struggles, what can we do to deal with our own 'demons' while still being authentic with those we help? Here are a few thoughts that might help.
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Judo Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus
Over the last month or two, you've been coaching John toward his goal of reducing stress. Today he has something completely different on his mind: a great new job opportunity. Your concern is that you are two thirds of the way through making a very important and needed change in John's life, and suddenly he wants to jump completely off the bandwagon...
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How to Ruin Your Life, by Tony Stoltzfus
One major roadblock to change is what coaches call self-talk: the messages we habitually or unconsciously tell ourselves about who we are and how life works. Below are eight common self-talk messages. Maybe one is stymieing you!
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Feedback: Friend or Foe? by Ron Marsh
Here's a tool that will help you get valuable feedback from your leadership sphere in order to help you address with confidence the leadership gaps that you and others identify. You can download...
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