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		<title>Support Structures in the Coaching Relationship by Tony Stoltzfus</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 09:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The process of habit change is not well understood by Christians, and neither are the relational resources God has given us to do it. The key factor in change is motivation, not information. It isn’t knowing what to do that produces change—it’s having the incentive to tackle the hard work it entails. We have to get motivated, to get energized to change, and then stay motivated and energized long enough to form a new habit. ]]></description>
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		<title>The Power of Accountability by Tony Stoltzfus</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 14:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s 11:00 p.m., you just got back from another long day of ministry two time zones away from home, and you’re sitting alone on your hotel bed, exhausted. Tomorrow you fly back home through O’Hare, but right now all you want is to relax for a half an hour or so before bed. As you’re flipping through the channels trying to find ESPN Sports Center, there right in front of your eyes is a graphic, X-rated sex scene...

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		<title>Marketplace Ministry &#8211; Business Leaders as Ministers &#8211; by Anita Stadler, PhD</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 16:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anita Stadler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do your Christian business clients consider themselves to be in ministry?  Why or why not?]]></description>
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		<title>Letting the Client Lead by Tony Stoltzfus</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/09/letting-the-client-lead/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/09/letting-the-client-lead/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:45:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coaching is based on internal motivation. The biggest obstacle to growth and change is motivation, not information. You can come up with a great idea for how to make a client’s life better, but if that person isn’t looking to change in that area, proposing it was a complete waste of time. People are the most motivated to act on their own plans and ideas. Therefore, if you want to maximize growth, you’ll allow people to set their own agenda, because that’s where the motivation is highest.]]></description>
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		<title>Four Principles for Connecting with Your Child by Gregory Bland</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/06/four-principles-for-connecting-with-your-child-by-gregory-bland-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/06/four-principles-for-connecting-with-your-child-by-gregory-bland-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 21:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg Bland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A relational connection with our child is essential to a healthy and productive parent coaching relationship.  Without it, our conversations will be shallow, lack significance, and meaning.  With it, our coaching conversations are more heart-felt, have depth, and greater significance.  Connecting with our child may not be as complicated as one might initially think.  Simply [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Makes a Parent Coaching Question Powerful? by Gregory Bland</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 17:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg Bland</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Asking]]></category>
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It doesn’t matter how great our questions are, if we do not have a relational connection, the answer we receive from our children may lack meaning, heart, and depth.  One of the ingredients that make parent coaching so effective is the use of powerful questions.  They can open our children’s hearts, stimulate greater reflection, apply [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is Pro-Active Parent Coaching?  by Gregory Bland</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2011 14:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg Bland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pro-Active Parent Coaching is a natural approach to parenting that will strengthen relationship while providing our children with a healthy support structure for their growth and development.  This is accomplished by offering a simple and unique 2 stage Parent Coaching Model that will help parents connect with and empower their children by,

 Supporting Relationship through [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Creating a Coaching Culture by Tony Stoltzfus</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/04/coaching-emergance/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/04/coaching-emergance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 12:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Become a Coach]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>How an Entire District of One Denomination Embraced Coaching</h3>

Why has Western Ontario District [WOD] of the Pentecostal Assemblies of Canada been able to create an environment in their organization where people value coaching and desire to implement it in their ministry settings?
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Nine years ago, two key leaders in WOD felt compelled to look for a tangible leadership development program that they could offer credentialed leaders (pastors) in their organization.  In searching out what were identified as growth areas by a collaborative committee representing members in the organization, WOD was introduced to...]]></description>
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		<title>Doing Nothing by Michael J. Pfau</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/03/doing-nothing-by-michael-j-pfau/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/03/doing-nothing-by-michael-j-pfau/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2011 12:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last time I wrote how being driven by distraction causes us to respond to impulse and urgency to the detriment of self care and relationships.  This has a domino effect in that, when self care and relationships are not adequately met, we find ourselves driven by needs. We often do this unconsciously – how many times do we just need to take a break, go for a walk or rest but instead we decide to eat something? Even though needs may go unnoticed they do have a strong influence on our ]]></description>
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		<title>Coaching Interview Proficiency by Marcie Thomas</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/02/coaching-interview-proficiency-by-marcie-thomas/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/02/coaching-interview-proficiency-by-marcie-thomas/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2011 21:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article you&#8217;ll discover how to create an informational audio product for almost no money. Record an interview about how your coaching program is unique and effective. End the recording with an invitation to the listeners to contact you.
 
How informational interviews benefit your coaching business:

 Helps your clients gain a sense of trust [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Listening to Christian Leaders – by Anita Stadler, PhD</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/01/listening-to-christian-leaders-%e2%80%93-by-anita-stadler-phd/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/01/listening-to-christian-leaders-%e2%80%93-by-anita-stadler-phd/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Jan 2011 04:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anita Stadler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leaders often appreciate having time set aside for coaching because it is the only place they can safely think out loud.  Our role as a coach includes listening at multiple levels. ]]></description>
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		<title>Driven by Distraction by Michael J. Pfau</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/01/driven-by-distraction-by-michael-j-pfau/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/01/driven-by-distraction-by-michael-j-pfau/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 19:57:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I’ve sensed a trend in my life which you may be able to relate to: I am distracted! More specifically I have found myself distracted by modern life. The ease at which I am able to communicate with others and the level of my availability has definitely played a part in the distraction of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Doing Missions Coaching in Asia: The Power of Summary &#8211; by Patty, a missionary in Asia</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2011/01/doing-missions-coaching-in-asia-the-power-of-summary-by-patty-a-missionary-in-asia/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 08:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MCC Moderator</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For several months, Tammy and I have been exploring how she can best use her strengths and passions within her calling. Now transitioning out of her current role, Tammy is considering what she will do when she returns to the field after her home leave. As we recently talked about what that new role might [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Taking the Long View</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 08:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Taking the Long View
Transformational coaching is taking the long view in working with people. Companies that are managed to generate short-term profits ignore research, product development and employee training because they don’t contribute to the immediate bottom line. The downside of this approach is that it mortgages the company’s long-term growth.
Coaching offers similar choices. We [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Build People, Don&#8217;t Solve Problems</title>
		<link>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2010/12/build-people-dont-solve-problems/</link>
		<comments>http://www.christiancoachingcenter.org/index.php/2010/12/build-people-dont-solve-problems/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 19:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tony Stoltzfus</dc:creator>
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Build People, Don’t Solve Problems
As coaches, we can choose to focus on becoming or on doing: on preparing people’s character for eternity or on making sure things are done right today. In practical terms, we can build people or we can solve problems. Transformational coaching is about building people. This approach is a far more [...]]]></description>
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