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The Profit of Pain by Gregory Bland

Loosening our grip on control; releasing responsibility; allowing our children to make decisions and experience the pain of failure may be among the hardest things for parents to do.  But, these are the essential ingredients…
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Sticks and Stones by Gregory Bland

Sticks and stones may break my bones, and your words will always shape me.  No doubt you understand the power of words and the influence they have within our lives.  Most of us can think…
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Was that a Question or not a Question? That is the Question! By Gregory Bland

Would it help to pray about that before making a decision?  At first glance this may sound like a great question, but, is it?  As parent coaches we understand the power of asking instead of…
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One Simple Question by Gregory Bland

The heavy footsteps, sigh, and loud thump as my son sat upon the stairs indicated something was up.  I looked up to see a disappointed look upon my sons face.  He stared into my eyes…
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Staying Connected after the Empty Nest by Sharon Wildman

“Mom, could I call you after classes and talk to you about what’s going on in my life?” What parent would not want to hear those words from their child - words that invite you…
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Decisions, Decisions, Decisions. by Gregory Bland

“Dad, are you trying to help me be a better decision maker?” my son’s eyes peered across the boat cover as we snapped it back into place. Smiling back I responded, “Yes, as a matter of…
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To Listen is to Love by Gregory Bland

There is an incredible difference between hearing our children speak and listening so we may understand what they are saying, sensing and feeling.  Think about yourself for a moment.  To whom do you open up…
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Clarifying: The Cure for Misunderstandings between Parents and Children by Gregory Bland

“Dad, if I like the color of the dachshund, and the parents are ‘good natured,’ I am going to hold the puppy.” “O.K., but can I ask a question?” “Sure.” “When we visit the family who has the…
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Maximizing Everyday Opportunities for our Children’s Growth through Coaching by Gregory Bland

Each and every day we are surrounded with opportunities for growth, learning, cultivating deeper character and shaping our values.  Embracing a Pro-Active Parent Coaching approach will assist you in helping your child make the most…
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From Entertainment to Enrichment: Transforming Summer Vacations through Coaching. By Gregory Bland

OK, now that our vacation is winding down and we’re on our way home, let’s take turns and we’ll share what our favorite part of the trip was.  Who will go first? ‘I will,’ one of…
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Pro-Active Parent Coaching: Facilitating the Family Meeting over Changing Roles and Responsibility by Gregory Bland

What a privilege we have to prepare our children for life beyond the shelter of our homes.  As our children mature, we have the privilege of releasing greater responsibility to them as they build a…
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Am I Pushing my Child Away? Balancing Control and Freedom Part 2 by Gregory Bland

“You never trust me!” “You never let me do anything!”  “You don’t understand me!” “I wished I was never born!” “I hate you!” These are statements that send a chill up a parent’s spine as they contemplate even the possibility…
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Am I Pushing my Child Away? Balancing Control and Freedom. Part 1 by Gregory Bland

‘Pastor Greg, my parents do not trust me with anything!  I feel as though they are suffocating me and simply want to ruin my life with all their rules and regulations.  They don’t let me…
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Giving the Gift of Responsibility this Christmas Part 2 by Gregory Bland

"That's a lot of money daddy, I think we better look at the price of making greeting cards!" Hannah said softly, as the expense associated with creating calendars sunk in. "We can do that honey, greeting…
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The Proof is in Our Children by Gregory Bland

The fruit doesn’t fall far from the tree, but then again, neither do the nuts!  It has been said, ‘You can teach a child what you want, but you reproduce what you are.’  As you…
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