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Archive for 2013

Building Leadership Capacity through Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus

Giving responsibility to others instead of taking responsibility for them is a key to developing leaders. Here’s why. Our capacity for leadership is directly tied to our capacity for responsibility. The more responsibility we can…
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Cultivate a Coach’s Heart by Tony Stoltzfus

How do you cultivate a coach’s heart for people? The place in our own experience that most exemplifies the heart of a coach is our relationship with God. Powerful coaching comes from studying, internalizing and…
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Passion and Life Purpose by Tony Stoltzfus

For coaching demonstrations, I’ll often ask for an audience member to share an unrealized dream as a coaching issue. Once after a lengthy wait for a volunteer in a pastor’s group, one man shared a…
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What to Do When People Don’t Follow Through by Tony Stoltzfus

You’ve just started a coaching appointment, and the first thing you discover is that the person sitting across from you didn’t do half of his action steps—for the second week in a row. Do you…
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How to Convert Closed Questions to Open Ones by Tony Stoltzfus

There’s an art to asking questions that make people think. Read through the following dialogue and see if you can put your finger on what’s not working in the kind of questions that are being…
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A Marketing Plan for Your Coaching Business by Tony Stoltzfus

Do you need help marketing your coaching business? If your response is yes answer these five questions to begin to design the core of your practice, identify your niche and create a marketing program…
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Practicing Distinctively Christian Life Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus

While most coaches talk about things like passion, design and calling, living your destiny as a Christ-follower is much more than simply looking inward to follow your bliss or find fulfillment. To create a uniquely…
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How to Choose a Life Coach Training School by Tony Stoltzfus

As someone who runs a coaching bookstore, I get asked this question all the time. And as a coach, I like to make people think instead of just giving advice. So here are the five…
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Natural Growth Patterns and the Limiting & Empowering Parenting Styles by Gregory Bland

In this video Greg describes the Natural Growth Patterns of our Children/Teens; the Limiting Parenting Style and Empowering Parenting Style.

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Keep an eye open for little ways in which…
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Where is Your Focus by Michael J. Pfau

The Bible has a lot to say about our thought life. For example, Romans 12:2a, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” 2 Corinthians 10:3-5…
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Bringing Coaching to the Church by Tony Stoltzfus

Coaching has enough of a buzz surrounding it that it seems to be cropping up all over the place in today’s church. While that’s exciting news, it also means that people are being called “coaches”…
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Supporting Growth the EASEy Way part 5 by Gregory Bland

Hannah excitedly headed into the house with her bundle of craft supplies.  Running to ‘mommy’ she shared the news of her decision to make greeting cards to sell.  Together we took time to…
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Seven Tips for Effective Free Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus

If you are coaching as part of a staff role, working in the ministry arena or just starting out as a professional coach, you’ll probably do some free (or pro-bono) coaching. No-fee coaching relationships present…
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Supporting Growth the EASEy Way part 4 by Gregory Bland

What do you do when your child hits a road block?  In short; allow a course correction.  A parent’s flexibility with the plan, when necessary, will assist in keeping the child/teens enthusiasm high and foster…
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Coaching Tools for Clarifying Your Life Calling by Tony Stoltzfus

For a variety of reasons, an individual’s calling seems to be the least understood and tapped facet of life purpose. I define calling as a commission coming from outside yourself, to serve something bigger than…
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