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Archive for 2009

Intuition Clues: How to See the Need for Character Growth

Here are some clues I listen for that might indicate an opportunity to reframe the situation in terms of character growth (ala Romans 8:28): Dissonance Your words don't fit your values, Christian worldview, etc. Is a leadership…
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Is Something Missing? by Donna Astern

The balance comes in the ebb and flow, the give and take, according to our values and life circumstances. If we are unclear on our values, we will be frustrated, even if we are getting a lot of things done.
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Coaching Separated Men, Part I: An Interview with a Coach Who’s Been There by Jeff Williams

Some coaching ministries evolve out of painful experiences. This is exactly how Rich Wildman[1] developed compassion for separated men. He and his wife Sharon were separated 16 months before a successful reconciliation. Today he serves men that are enduring the painful and scary challenge of reconciling their marriage by coaching them.
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Let’s Face It, by April M. Stallworth

Why do we try and box God in? I haven’t a clue but I sure have been guilty of this myself a time or two. When I think about it, it’s so ridiculous to think that a God so big and so wondrous could be made to fit into our human comprehension. It’s truly laughable. God not only made the human but he made the comprehension too!
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Effective Marriage Coaching: Facing the Brutal Facts by Jeff Williams

It's the moment of truth that makes every married couple quiver. It happens when they're asked the question that reveals what they really think, how they really feel, and why they've asked you to coach them, "How would you rate your marriage on a scale of 1-10?"
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What’s “The Long Tail,” and Why Should You Care? by Susan Fleming

This is a guest post by Susan Fleming of Electronic Marketing Success. If you have an Internet presence at all, you have probably heard of keywords. They are the words or phrases someone types into a…
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Why Are We Here, Anyway? by Jeff Williams

"Why has God given Christian Coaching to the Church at this time?"

The retreat leader who asked this question to a group of Christian Coaches said that he wasn't sure that the Christian Coaching movement as a whole had a clear answer. He also said that we needed to understand God's purpose for Christian Coaching in order to be good stewards of the ministry into which He had called us.

The answers from the audience were similar. The theme was that God isn't done in human history, that The Church is His chosen vessel through which He wants to accomplish His purposes and Christian Coaching is a way to strengthen it. In other words, Christian Coaching is one way God wants to strengthen the Church to fulfill its purposes...
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Recruiting Coaches for Lay Coach Training

Programs come and go in the church all the time, and if you're as passionate about training lay coaches as I am, you will want your first training to have a good reputation and a life-changing impact for the long-haul. The best way to do that may be to carefully think through how to recruit your first class of potential coaches. I recently had a good experience recruiting and training lay discipleship coaches in my own church, so here's a first-hand summary of what seemed to work:
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Help Potential Clients Feel Good about Getting Coaching by Michael Essenburg

You're a missionary serving in Latin America. You send monthly newsletters to your supporters, and you send monthly reports to your mission. Each time you send a newsletter, you receive encouraging emails and notes; each…
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Pastors and Coaching – the Pastoral Missing Link

...a recent Barna study suggests 61% of pastors have difficulty in developing meaningful relationships. In other words, pastors many times do not seek relationships for their own leadership development. Dr. Louis McBurney, a leading pastoral counselor suggests it is taught as a “best practice” in seminary; avoid intimate relationships...A personal coach can be the missing link for pastors to truly transform their ministry.
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Listening in the Third Way, Kimberly Dinsdale

What is interesting is listening in this third way can be one the biggest challenges I face. Not only as a coach, but also as a mom, as a wife and as a friend.
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Blessed as You Are, by Ginny Victory

At a coaches conference a few weeks ago we were doing an exercise about leadership. In answer to the question "How do I see myself?" the keynote, a coach herself said: "fraud." A room of one hundred coaches sat in stunned silence. Then she asked "who else?" Hands went up all over the room.....including mine.
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Unmasking, by Marian Struble

Women often find themselves hiding. Ever since Eve chose to eat the apple, mankind has been covering themselves up with the fig leafs. There are a lot of reasons. We mask our shame, fear, insecurity, loneliness, and low self worth. We cover up our true heart desires, convincing ourselves we are silly to want to accomplish something more. We live in a world of make believe instead of the real one we were destined by God to help create.
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Finishing Well, What’s Next? – by Tim Olson

When it comes to coaching missionaries, a certain picture of a missionary comes into focus for me. Who comes to your mind? There is one group in particular that we often miss - the retiring Baby…
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Just How Does Coaching Work? by Marcie Thomas

This is a guest post by Marcie Thomas of Coaching Shift. "So just how does coaching work?" my friend asked me. I inwardly smiled, confident that I could explain coaching to her, but it had not…
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