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Archive for November 2009

Heartbreaking or Hopeful, A Coaching Challenge, by Kimberly Dinsdale

I don't feel depressed. I haven't lost interest in these things. I just don't do them. I'm excited about the possibility to accomplish my goals and the idea of being an independent woman, but I have trouble acting on it. I don't have trouble dreaming about the life I want, but I don't know why I don't do what it takes to make it happen. What the heck is wrong with me? How do I get that focus and discipline now that I am out of such an oppressive and damaging marriage?
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7 Common “Ego Traps” for Leaders (Part 2) by Michael Warden, CPCC

Ego Trap #2: "If I don't stay on top of their work, mistakes will be made." Translation: "I'm a control freak."
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Developing Coaches in the Church: Part 3 by Brian Rhen

Convincing the Big Kahuna...How important "he" is to implementing coaching:
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Overwhelmed and Stressed??? by Kristin Schuchmann

I am reminded of the Christmas song lyrics, "It's the most wonderful time of the year." But, so many people do not really experience the desired wonder and peace of the holiday season because they are overwhelmed! Christmas parties, traveling, desserts, cold weather, family traditions, shopping, visits from friends and family, and the stressful list goes on and on
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Intuition Clues: How to See the Need for Character Growth

Here are some clues I listen for that might indicate an opportunity to reframe the situation in terms of character growth (ala Romans 8:28): Dissonance Your words don't fit your values, Christian worldview, etc. Is a leadership…
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Is Something Missing? by Donna Astern

The balance comes in the ebb and flow, the give and take, according to our values and life circumstances. If we are unclear on our values, we will be frustrated, even if we are getting a lot of things done.
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Coaching Separated Men, Part I: An Interview with a Coach Who’s Been There by Jeff Williams

Some coaching ministries evolve out of painful experiences. This is exactly how Rich Wildman[1] developed compassion for separated men. He and his wife Sharon were separated 16 months before a successful reconciliation. Today he serves men that are enduring the painful and scary challenge of reconciling their marriage by coaching them.
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Let’s Face It, by April M. Stallworth

Why do we try and box God in? I haven’t a clue but I sure have been guilty of this myself a time or two. When I think about it, it’s so ridiculous to think that a God so big and so wondrous could be made to fit into our human comprehension. It’s truly laughable. God not only made the human but he made the comprehension too!
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Effective Marriage Coaching: Facing the Brutal Facts by Jeff Williams

It's the moment of truth that makes every married couple quiver. It happens when they're asked the question that reveals what they really think, how they really feel, and why they've asked you to coach them, "How would you rate your marriage on a scale of 1-10?"
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What’s “The Long Tail,” and Why Should You Care? by Susan Fleming

This is a guest post by Susan Fleming of Electronic Marketing Success. If you have an Internet presence at all, you have probably heard of keywords. They are the words or phrases someone types into a…
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Why Are We Here, Anyway? by Jeff Williams

"Why has God given Christian Coaching to the Church at this time?"

The retreat leader who asked this question to a group of Christian Coaches said that he wasn't sure that the Christian Coaching movement as a whole had a clear answer. He also said that we needed to understand God's purpose for Christian Coaching in order to be good stewards of the ministry into which He had called us.

The answers from the audience were similar. The theme was that God isn't done in human history, that The Church is His chosen vessel through which He wants to accomplish His purposes and Christian Coaching is a way to strengthen it. In other words, Christian Coaching is one way God wants to strengthen the Church to fulfill its purposes...
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